Waiting for you to die
- Sandra Aquino O'Keefe
- Sep 15, 2017
- 2 min read
Recently a friend called to ask me for some help to try and help her mom cross over, she had struggled with so many difficulties and health hazards. I had made contact with her regarding her mom a few months ago and asked her why she was still holding on and not letting go…
So when she contacted me to help her cross over it was a very delicate process, especially because one can never really be in control of what the soul has decided but it was interesting to watch energetically how long it would take to commit to letting go and surrender to the end of this chapter called life.
My angels advised me that she was entangled with her youngest daughter and was really struggling to let go as she was the last born and still her baby. I realized that than that nothing happens by mistake, that everything has its own time. It was then that I made contact with my friend and told her perhaps why she hadn’t yet left and she confirmed this to me. She needed for her family to somehow let her go so she could leave.
It fascinated me as it did with my mom’s passage to the other side how the body sometimes takes time to let go, to shut down and finally die. I found myself feeling for this family that were waiting as I did for my mom’s last breath only because I knew how much she suffered to the very end.
Only the soul knows when they are ready to leave. For many evenings I awaited to know if she had in fact made the step to cross over. The family had gotten together and I advised my friend to make sure that the family give her permission to leave, but the youngest was finding it hard to do this, perhaps found herself in a place where she needed her mom not to leave to carry on giving her validation in life. After much convincing from the rest of her family she finally did give her permission and it wasn’t long after that I heard from my friend to tell me that she had finally stepped across, she told me that she looked so peaceful. I am so blessed to do this work it humbles me endlessly. With love and light Sandra
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